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It was not an easy decision to leave and change the life your children grew up with.
There have been many logistical issues and emotions to deal with as you have organized new living arrangements. They may worry that, if their parents can stop loving each other, then how hard would it be for either parent to stop loving them?
Next to your parents actually getting a divorce, the hardest thing you might face is when they start dating other people.
As long as you keep these factors in mind - and recognize, every child of divorce is different so not all will apply - you will have a solid chance of having a fantastic, long-lasting relationship (and more relatives than you could ever hope for.)1. We really to believe in the institution of marriage but we're tentative of making the same mistake our parents did, which means we might put it off longer or have more hesitations around it in general. ) between Mom and Dad which means that in addition to sharing time with YOUR family for holidays, we also need to make sure that we're making time for both sets of parents on our side. We love them both equally, of course, but yes, we like one more than the other and no, we probably won't tell you until you get to know us well (although, in some cases, it's blatantly obvious.) 6. Anytime one of those studies comes out that says that children of divorce are more likely to get divorced themselves, we panic for a second. Especially if our parent's divorce was caused by cheating. Because of this, we're tight as hell and always there for each other.
Personally, for me, I'd be just as content with a life partner, no marriage certificate necessary.2. Because most of us were raised being shuttled between two homes every other week or spending weekends at the other parent's house, it's important for us to have one - I repeat one - safe space with all our stuff under one roof. We know, it's super-annoying, we'v been doing it all our lives. Which confirms - #1 - if we never get married, we'll never have to get divorced. If that's the example that was set, we either do a 180 to ensure we don't cause the same hurt by being the most committed partner in the history of commitment or we accept it as status-quo and follow in our parents' dysfunctional cheating footsteps.
It’s weird to see your father with someone other than your mother or your mother with anyone other than your father.
And, it’s natural for you to not want your parents to date other people.
When he doesn’t appear one night, they go looking for him and discover that he has two homes where he is loved and cared for, just like they do. Every Sunday, her father comes to visit in his bright yellow taxi.